Some people feel a lot for their partner and take all possible efforts to get her/him back after the relationship breaks. Some wait for the right time to bring their ex back, while others display urgency in handling this situation and bring life back to normal.
You can do the same. Notice the problems that threaten to overwhelm you. Or what already overwhelms you, such as your workload or a transition. Or the non-supportive people you have to work with. Now search for firm ground or boulders to hang on to.
An actor bring a character out, from inside, using emotional intelligence. For the writer and director (not to mention producers and crew), the process stays trapped in their heads. An actor trained in method acting goes on a natural process of bringing personal emotional memories to serve the character’s needs.
Define your values. What are your most fundamental beliefs? Identify three important moral values. The more clearly you define them, the more energy and focus you’ll have to meet your goals.
6) Resilience… we have to take the rough with the smooth and being able to find a way to handle life’s challenges is an important life skill. We protect our children when they are very young from challenges which are beyond their capacity to cope but gradually as they mature we encourage them to face up to obstacles and find a way around them. Resilience is that ability to get back up to try again.
I’m not telling you this to brag or pat myself on the back. It’s to let you know that just a few years back I was completely clueless with what to do in these situations. And that is what inspired me to learn these positive parenting. I was sick and tired of feeling manipulated by other people.
Defer to customers, clients and prospects. They are the people who keep you in business. When you defer to others you show respect. Deference is an act of high regard and respect. Put another person’s interests first is part of good client/customer service.
Do not forget that the kind of approach you use must depend overtly on the issues that brought about the breakup. If you had a fight with the ex, you must remember that it requires a different technique of rectifying the situation, more than it requires to mend a relationship that had the ex getting bored and dumping you. The fact is that each dating instance that is aimed at healing a broken relationship requires a distinct path that must aim at its unique nature.